We complain but we never change

Sometimes I wonder if people truly look around and see that they are surrounded by good people. When they complain there's no good whatever left in the world, it's actually quite disappointing because often times they miss it right in front of them. Not to mention that people have an attraction to things that are bad for them. Everyone wants the sexy 'bad boy', 'star boy', 'football player', 'mr. player', 'miss sexy thing', 'the bitch' or 'the sketel girl in the skanky clothes leaving no room for the imagination' or whatever the case maybe because we find them interesting. Yet, no one finds the quite gentlemen or the sweet girl to be interesting. Oh no they are way too boring. The church girls and boys get persecuted for being too 'Jesus freak' or 'nerdy' but the girl in the batty rider (booty shorts) is one sexy piece a thing that everyone want and the douche bag is soooooo dreamy. As if! And then when you end up with them (against better judgement) and they treat you like CRAP you complain to that nice guy or girl you've long placed in the friend zone. Then you say 'All men are dogs and all girls are gold-digging bitches' 


Is it me or is there something wrong with the psyche there? We choose what's bad for us and then complain when the result is bad? :s Do we ever stop to think about the relationship cycle we've landed ourselves into. A series of bad choices and terrible decisions that lead us on the path of relationship rampages. We complain and exclaim but no one ever looks in themselves and try to change. If this sounds like you then maybe you should use this new year as an opportunity to do some serious reflection and see how you can make better relationship choices in the future. Because let's be honest if you don't change you'll just end up with the same guy or just with a different face each time. Take control of you relationships.




                                                          Much Love, 


                                                  Nella